Do you have a third place around Charlotte? Take a moment to reflect. Besides your home (first space) and workplace (second space), where do you go throughout the week? Whose faces do you see and who do you talk to when you go there? Is the vibe at this space easy, non-pressuring, and potentially playful? Do you look forward to going and feel welcome?

If you answered these questions with one spot in mind, congratulations, you've already found your third place. If you didn't, that’s okay. We’ve got ideas to help you find one.

What's a third place?

Ray Oldenburg, a sociologist who wrote about third places in his book, “The Great Good Place,” shares that third places are public, informal gathering spaces you frequent in your community (think: coffee shops, parks, libraries, churches, etc.). They're important for many reasons, particularly because they promote social vitality + a sense of community.

A purple and a pink drink on a red countertop with a Plot Twist sticker and menu underneath. — If you're feeling a spritz, consider trying the ube coconut or mountain berry drinks. | Photo by CLTtoday

Editor Maria's picks

Pair a sweet treat with coffee from Amelie's French Bakery and Café. If you feel better surrounded by the smell of coffee, check out our guide to local coffee shops to find a cozy spot to sip.

If you're looking for a coffee or a mocktail, Plot Twist offers a fun space to hang out, with a screen for fan-favorite shows, music, and patio seating.

Visit La Bodeguita at Camp North End, a craft cafe that helps anyone channel their creative side.

If you're all about business with a side of coworking, Switchyards' two locations in Oakhurst and Belmont are open around the clock.

Find your third place in Charlotte

Along with our suggestions, we have additional ideas to get you started on your third-place journey.

Love live music? Rock out at a local music venue and discover new talent.
Foodies may find comfort going to their favorite restaurant, but if you don't have a go-to spot, find one by grabbing brunch or a meal under $15.
Relax in nature by exploring one — or all — of Charlotte's parks or by hiking your way through the city.
If it's movement you're after, travel with your friends in a local running group.

Pro tip: Local Facebook groups are a low-lift way to explore the city and put yourself out there.